寝室老大说要来西安工作了，随着她家男人。

好开心。

老大你快点来吧，我正愁没人玩儿呢。

老大你快点来吧，我正烦没人跟我一起逛街呢。

老大你快点来吧，我正想着要跟谁一块三八呢。

老大你早点来吧！

转豆瓣友邻语：

“我饿了”是句很可爱的话。跟妈妈说:我饿了！妈妈会立刻起身道:我这就做饭去！跟爸爸说:我饿了！爸爸会笑呵呵的说:走，咱出去吃！跟男友说:我饿了！他会温柔的问:想吃什么呢？跟女友说:我饿了！她永远都会回你:我也是...

快下班了，快该吃饭了，我饿了……

一、西安的2010年元旦并不孤独。

爸爸妈妈坐火车来看我。妈妈说，他们来的前一天，爸爸还专门去给我买猪蹄和羊头。姥姥还特地给我做了带鱼。心里开了幸福的花。

元旦那天下午，我们走路去了兴庆公园。爸妈说西安的出租车太少，出行太不方便。

妈妈穿着她的大羽绒服来了，元旦那几天西安很暖，把妈妈热得不行。

爸爸妈妈年纪大了，我不想让他们再为我操心了。

养孩子真不容易。

二、1月3号晚上，伤心地和一个人定在半月之后再见。

我不是一个乐天派么？

我就是一个乐天派啊！

搞不清楚自己在做什么了。

博客还是继续吧，看看自己都在做些什么。

不要把属于自己的生活搞得不像样子。

有规律 有秩序是我一向标榜的，

可是 一直一直都没有按照我所说的我所想的那样按部就班。

性格决定命运 当心你的思想，它们会成为你的语言；当心你的语言，它们会成为你的行动；当心你的行动，它们会成为你的习惯；当心你的习惯，它们会成为你的性格；当心你的性格，它会成为你的命运。——Frank Outlaw

爱不是彼此凝视，而是一起注视同一个方向。

物以类聚，人以群分。

领导力：让他人跟随的积极态度所带来的巨大力量。

不盲目跟从众人，这会让你脱颖而出。

少了“U”，我们就不能拼写“SUCCESS”（少了你，我们无法成功）

你越避免变化，就越会妨碍生命的成长进程。

王菲 《假如我是真的》

假如流水能回头
请你带我走
假如流水能接受
不再烦忧
假如流水能回头
请你带走
假如流水能接受
不再烦忧
有人羡慕你
自由自在的流
我愿变做你
到处任意游呀游
假如流水换成我
也要泪儿流
假如我是清流水
我也不回头

Greatest Strengths Identified
被确认的最强大的优势


The VIA Signature Strength Survey is a 240 question survey that has been taken by hundreds of thousands of people. The VIA Signature Strengths Survey measures 24 character strengths that are taken from Character Strengths and Virtues: A Handbook and Classification by Christopher Peterson and Martin E. P. Seligman, Oxford University Press, 2004. The 24 character strengths are listed below. The results page will show you your 5 greatest character strengths.
“VIA特征优势调查”是一份面向成千上万的人们的由240个问题组成的调查。VIA特征优势调查测量了从许多种人格优点和品德中选出的24种人格优势——成书为由克里斯托弗·彼德逊和马丁·E.P.·瑟里格曼编写的、牛津大学出版社2004年出版的一本手册和分类指南。这24种人格优势罗列于下，结论那页会显示出你的5种最强的人格优势。


Creativity (originality, ingenuity):
Thinking of novel and productive ways to conceptualize and do things.
创造力（原创性，独创性）：思索新颖而有价值的方法来产生概念和做事情。


Curiosity (interest, novelty-seeking, openness to experience):
Taking an interest in ongoing experience s afor its own sake; exploring and discovering
好奇心（兴趣，寻找新事物，开放式体验）：对持续的体验和其内在因缘产生兴趣；进行探索和发现。


Open-mindedness (judgment, critical thinking):
Thinking things through and examining them from all sides; weighing all evidence fairly.
头脑开明（判断力，批判性思维）：通过全方位测验来思考事物；公平权衡所有的根据。


Love of learning:
Mastering new skills, topics, and bodies of knowledge, whether on one's own or formally.
爱学习：掌握新的技能、话题以及知识本体，不管是出于自愿还是形式要求。


Perspective (wisdom):
Being able to provide wise counsel to others; having ways of looking at the world that make sense to oneself and to other people
洞察力（智慧）：能对他人提出明智的建议；能着眼于对己对人有意义的世界。


Bravery (valor):
Not shrinking from threat, challenge, difficulty, or pain; acting on convictions even if unpopular.
勇敢（勇气）：不畏威胁、挑战、困顿或苦痛；依觉悟而行，不论其是否被普遍认同。


Persistence (perseverance, industriousness):
Finishing what one starts; persisting in a course of action in spite of obstacles.
持久（有毅力，刻苦发奋）：做事有始有终；坚持行为方向，不论障碍险阻。


Integrity (authenticity, honesty):
Presenting oneself in a genuine way; taking responsibility for one's feeling and actions
正直（可靠，诚实）：自我表现诚恳；对自己的感觉和行为负责。


Vitality (zest, enthusiasm, vigor, energy):
Approaching life with excitement and energy; feeling alive and activated
有活力（热情，积极，有魄力，有精力）：使生活充满激情和能量；感觉活跃、活泼。


Love:
Valuing close relations with others, in particular those in which sharing and caring are reciprocated.
爱：珍爱与他人的亲密关系，尤其是那些其中相互分享、相互关照的。


Kindness (generosity, nurturance, care, compassion, altruistic love, “niceness”):
Doing favors and good deeds for others.
善良（慷慨，关怀，关照，同情，无私的爱，“美好的事物”）：为他人帮忙、做好事。


Social intelligence (emotional intelligence, personal intelligence):
Being aware of the motives and feelings of other people and oneself.
社会智商（情绪智商，个人智商）：了解他人以及自己的目的和感觉。


Citizenship (social responsibility, loyalty, teamwork):
Working well as a member of a group or team; being loyal to the group.
公民权（社会责任，忠诚，团队协作）：作为集体或团队中的一员好好工作；对集体忠诚。


Fairness:
Treating all people the same according to notions of fairness and justice; not letting personal feelings bias decisions about others.
公正：依照公平和正义的观念平等对待所有人；不要让个人感觉误导对他人的判定。


Leadership:
Encouraging a group of which one is a member to get things done and at the same maintain time good relations within the group.
领导能力：促进集体，使个人在其中作为成员能完成事情并且同时维持良好的集体关系。


Forgiveness and mercy:
Forgiving those who have done wrong; accepting the shortcomings of others; giving people a second chance; not being vengeful
宽恕和仁慈：宽恕做错事的人；接纳他人的短处；给予他人第二次机会；不心怀报复。


Humility / Modesty:
Letting one's accomplishments speak for themselves; not regarding oneself as more special than one is.
谦虚/谦逊：让人的成绩说话；不自大。


Prudence:
Being careful about one's choices; not taking undue risks; not saying or doing things that might later be regretted.
谨慎：细心于自己的选择；不要冒不当的风险；不说也不做会事后后悔的事。


Self-regulation (self-control):
Regulating what one feels and does; being disciplined; controlling one's appetites and emotions.
自律（自控）：管理自己的感觉和行为；守纪律；控制自己的欲望和情绪。


Appreciation of beauty and excellence (awe, wonder, elevation):
Appreciating beauty, excellence, and/or skilled performance in various domains of life.
欣赏美丽和卓越（敬畏，赞叹，上进）：欣赏美丽、卓越以及/或在生活的不同领域的娴熟表现。


Gratitude:
Being aware of and thankful of the good things that happen; taking time to express thanks.
感恩：知道并感谢发生的好事情；多多表达谢意。


Hope (optimism, future-mindedness, future orientation):
Expecting the best in the future and working to achieve it.
希望（乐观，为未来打算，为未来定向）：对将来有最好的展望，并努力实现它。


Humor (playfulness):
Liking to laugh and tease; bringing smiles to other people; seeing the light side.
幽默（爱玩）：喜欢笑，喜欢逗乐；给他人带来欢笑；看事物的光明面。


Spirituality (religiousness, faith, purpose):
Having coherent beliefs about the higher purpose, the meaning of life, and the meaning of the universe.
精神信仰（虔诚，守信，有追求）：有对更高追求、生活意义以及宇宙意义的信仰。

作者：Steve Pavlina
译者：Esther

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When your mind predicts a positive long-term outcome, but a negative short-term outcome from a course of action, courage is required to bridge the gap.

当你预期长期积极结果，但在行动过程中却出现短期负面结果，需要勇气弥补这个差距。

Courage is the application of power to break through short-term challenges in order to achieve long-term goals.

勇气是运用能力打破短期挑战以获得长期目标。

Whatever you fear, you must eventually face.

不管你怕什么，你始终必须面对。

What if you know you’re on the wrong path, but don’t know how to find the right one? Get off the road you’re on. Just stop. If you can’t see the right path from your current location, go out and explore.

如果你知道自己走错了，却不知道该如何找到正确方向，怎么办？离开你所走的路。停下来。如果你从当前位置看不到正确路线，走出去探索。

Don’t wait for a new career, a new relationship, or other opportunities to come to you. Go out and actively create what you want. Life is waiting for you to make the first move.

别等着新职业、新关系、其他机会主动找到你。走出去积极打造自己想要的东西。生活等着你先走第一步呢。

If you want something, ask for it. Accept the risk of rejection and summon the courage to take action anyway. If you don’t get rejected, you’ll achieve your outcome in the fastest and simplest way possible.

如果你想要什么东西，你得开口要。不管怎样，要承担起被拒绝的风险，并唤起行动的勇气。如果你没有被拒绝，你要最迅速最极致地完成任务。

An honest rejection is always better than a clever deception.

真诚的拒绝总比狡诈的欺骗好。

Short bursts of courage can overcome many obstacles.

瞬间的勇气爆发可以克服无数障碍。

Consciously commit yourself to a principle-centered life. This commitment is called honor.

有意识地让自己的生活以纪律为中心，这种行为名为荣誉。

The guiding force of honor is your conscience.

荣誉的指引力量是你的良心。

Service to self and service to others are the same thing.

为己服务和为人服务是一样的。

When you feel lazy and unmotivated, you’re feeling disconnected. Remember who you are. Reconnect with what excites you. Revisit those times in your life when you were on fire – not because of external events, but because you were aligned with your truth.

当你觉得慵懒，毫无动力时，你感到与世隔绝。记得你是谁。与令你激动的东西重新连接。重新探访那些令你激情四溢的时光——不是因为外界活动，而是因为你与真实的自己重合。

Whatever scares you, learn more about it. The knowledge you acquire will help you act more courageously and intelligently.

不论什么让你害怕，多多学习。你掌握的知识会帮助你更勇敢更明智地行动。

It’s amazing how many opportunities we deny ourselves due to lack of knowledge or experience. In this info age, “I don’t know” is not a valid excuse. All the information you need is readily accessible online, in books, or on other people’s minds. If ignorance is holding you back in any area of your life, take the initiative and educate yourself.

因为缺乏知识或经验，我们自己放弃的机会之多，令人叹息。在这个信息时代，“我不知道”不再是合理的借口。你需要的所有信息都可以在网上、书中和其他人的头脑中。如果无知阻止你进入生活中的任何领域，采取主动，自学成才。

Make commitments that don’t require much courage to accept, but that require significant courage to implement.

作出不要需要很多勇气就能接受但需要很多勇气才能实施的承诺。

最近老在下小雨。被单之类全都是潮潮的。

一师兄在Q上问我放假了没。回问放什么假。

他说：高温假。

我这里冷得穿线衣。。。

才知道重庆高温至40度～

前两日刚买了件T恤，算是白买了。据说天不会再热起来。

天下毛毛雨的时候，心情会异常平静，说话也不会高声，不再烦燥。

一年前的这个时候刚来西安。现在回忆起来，仿佛就在昨日。

一年的变化好大。如今再也不能把自己当小孩了。