我的儿子 哪天当你看到我日渐老去 身体也渐渐不行
      请耐着性子 试着了解我
      如果我吃的脏兮兮 甚至已不会穿衣服
      耐心一点儿 你记得我曾经花了多少时间 教你这些事吗？

      当我一再重复 说着同样的事情
      请你不要打断我，听我说
      你小时候 我必须一遍又一遍地 读着同样的故事，
      直到你静静睡着

      当我不想洗澡 不要羞辱我 也不要责骂我
      你记得小时候 我曾经编出多少理由 只为了哄你洗澡
      当你看到我对新科技一无所知 给我一点时间 不要嘲笑我
      我曾经教会了你多少事情啊
      如何好好地吃 好好的穿，如何面对你的生命

      如果交谈中 我忽然失忆 不知道该说什么了
      给我一些时间想想
      如果我还是无能为力
      不要紧张 对我而言 重要的不是说话
      而是能跟你 在一起

      当我的腿不听使唤 扶我一把
      就像我当初扶着你 踏出你人生的第一步
     当哪天我告诉你 我不想再活下去了
     不要生气 总有一天 你会了解
     了解我 已风烛残年 来日可数

      有一天你会发现 即使我有许多过错
      我总是尽我所能 给你最好的
      当我靠近你时 不要觉得感伤 生气 或埋怨
      你要紧挨着我 如同当初我帮着你展开人生一样的
      了解我 帮我 扶我一把 用爱和耐心 帮我走完人生
      我将用微笑 和我始终不变的爱 来回报你

      我爱你 我的孩子

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Dear son   The day that you see me old and I am already not, have patience and try to
understand me
   If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same things thousand andone times do not interrupt me listen to me
   When you were small, I had to read to you thousand andone times the same story until you get to sleep
   When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me
   Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order
that you wanted to bath
   When you see my ignorance on new technologies give me the necessary time and
not look at me with your mocking smile
   I taught you how to do so many things to eat good, to dress well to confront
life
   When at some moment I lose the memory or the thread of our conversation let me have the necessary time to remember and if I cannot do it, do not become nervous as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me
   If ever I do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when I need to and
when not.
   When my tired legs do not allow me walk
   Give me your hand the same way I did when you gave your first steps.
   And when someday I say to you that I do not want to live any more that I want
to die do not get angry some day you will understand
   Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived.
   Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always wanted the best
thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way for you
   You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you. You must be
next to me, try to understand me and to help me as I did it when you started living.
Help me to walk help me to end my way with love and patience. I will pay you by a
smile and by the immense love I have had always for you.
   I love you son
                                                                   Your father

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    听到这篇散文是在《千里走单骑》的丽江首映礼上，当时是一个饱经岁月的略带苍老的男声伴着优美的音乐以及煽情的幻灯片朗诵的这首诗歌。当听到如同我曾扶着你踏出你人生的第一步…… 眼泪真真地就在眼眶中打转了。一直想找到这首诗的全文，收藏起来，时刻地提醒自己应该如何去对待自己的老父亲。我曾经怨过父亲，但直到很大的时候才理解到了父爱的深沉……看着父亲一天天老去，白发爬满额头，在看电视时不知不觉地沉沉睡去，我的心里异常地不是滋味。偶尔想起这篇散文，眼前映出父亲年轻时爱抚幼时自己的一幕幕温馨画面。